I realize I am not in the age category of women you are looking for...but hell, I couldn't help but laugh really HARD at your comments. OMG...I'm still laughing. You are hilarious... and cute to boot! Thank you for making my evening. *S*
Christine
I realize I am not in the age category of women you are looking for...but hell, I couldn't help but laugh really HARD at your comments. OMG...I'm still laughing. You are hilarious... and cute to boot! Thank you for making my evening. *S*
Harley2000 is ready for Halloween is that the costume? A mask and a birthday suit? I am going as a fighter pilot rock and Roll Baby. I bet men fall for bad girls too.
Harley2000 is ready for Halloween is that the costume? A mask and a birthday suit? I am going as a fighter pilot rock and Roll Baby. I bet men fall for bad girls too.
Other than that, dude, people are freaky out there... and this is a pretty open place to be to meet people-- guess you gotta expect you are going to get a little unwanted attention every now and then.
as for the attitude thing... man I would hate to jump to any conclusions based on what you have said here. I don't think people can really claim to know you because they chat with you on line, read your profile, or your blog. there's a little more to it in my book.
Other than that, dude, people are freaky out there... and this is a pretty open place to be to meet people-- guess you gotta expect you are going to get a little unwanted attention every now and then.
as for the attitude thing... man I would hate to jump to any conclusions based on what you have said here. I don't think people can really claim to know you because they chat with you on line, read your profile, or your blog. there's a little more to it in my book.
samshaw dont worry about it and do your thing i think its great you are a single dad and being single is great if you want to stay that way then fine. as for all the comments you recieved about you being stuck on yourself and what not dont worry about it. we are all human and make mistakes wheter its posting a blog or becoming too attatched to someone who is that attatched to you. and life isn't always easy sometimes we misinterprit things let go and move on and you will be better in no time.
samshaw dont worry about it and do your thing i think its great you are a single dad and being single is great if you want to stay that way then fine. as for all the comments you recieved about you being stuck on yourself and what not dont worry about it. we are all human and make mistakes wheter its posting a blog or becoming too attatched to someone who is that attatched to you. and life isn't always easy sometimes we misinterprit things let go and move on and you will be better in no time.
Advice from an older ex-marine - women don't function the way men do. Women are ALWAYS looking to be connected; especially emotionally and they crave security. Woman want ot be heard .. not told what to do. Most of the profiles from woman say "looking for a long term or serious relationship". And what's worse is they believe it themselves. What I see is women falling for the bad boys; exciting, fun and totally indifferent to what they SAY they want. Basically ... be fun, be teasing and don't fall all over them and they will flock to you. Don't believe me? Try it. Stop whining and ignore the wackos.
Advice from an older ex-marine - women don't function the way men do. Women are ALWAYS looking to be connected; especially emotionally and they crave security. Woman want ot be heard .. not told what to do. Most of the profiles from woman say "looking for a long term or serious relationship". And what's worse is they believe it themselves. What I see is women falling for the bad boys; exciting, fun and totally indifferent to what they SAY they want. Basically ... be fun, be teasing and don't fall all over them and they will flock to you. Don't believe me? Try it. Stop whining and ignore the wackos.
Unfortunately Samshaw... happens to us women as well... If we talk to someone alot they feel you belong to them.. especially if this is over the net...These are words on a computer.. and unfortunately some clutch to whatever they can ... and just assume that we must have something if we talk all the time..yeah thats called friendship... some dont know how to decipher the difference between friendship and relationship.. I must be slow because I still havent figured out how to date over the internet LOL I must be living in the dark ages cause dating to me is face to face.. spending time together. just sitting in front of a computer screen doesnt count.. and just because you agree to meet someone from the net doesnt mean your dating either ..just means you want to put a whole person to the words written to you.. guys unfortunately women read into things differently than men..so be specific and upfront... if you leave a little crack in the door.. she will open it wide .. hence ..your friendship will be a relationship to her .. :) be nice about it.. but be upfront...if she still doesnt get it .. walkaway..(that goes for the women as well) left alot of "friends" behind that couldnt grasp that we have a "friendship not a relationship" Good Luck!!
Unfortunately Samshaw... happens to us women as well... If we talk to someone alot they feel you belong to them.. especially if this is over the net...These are words on a computer.. and unfortunately some clutch to whatever they can ... and just assume that we must have something if we talk all the time..yeah thats called friendship... some dont know how to decipher the difference between friendship and relationship.. I must be slow because I still havent figured out how to date over the internet LOL I must be living in the dark ages cause dating to me is face to face.. spending time together. just sitting in front of a computer screen doesnt count.. and just because you agree to meet someone from the net doesnt mean your dating either ..just means you want to put a whole person to the words written to you.. guys unfortunately women read into things differently than men..so be specific and upfront... if you leave a little crack in the door.. she will open it wide .. hence ..your friendship will be a relationship to her .. :) be nice about it.. but be upfront...if she still doesnt get it .. walkaway..(that goes for the women as well) left alot of "friends" behind that couldnt grasp that we have a "friendship not a relationship" Good Luck!!
That's right, this is the net and anyone who has been on the net for a while knows, if we bypass the dysfunctional ones, there'd be no one left to talk to!!
Now are we all over this blog yet??
That's right, this is the net and anyone who has been on the net for a while knows, if we bypass the dysfunctional ones, there'd be no one left to talk to!!
THIS IS HOW IT IS ON THE INTERNET...THE ONES THAT ARE DISFUNCTIONAL ARE THE ONES YOU BYPASS...YOU WILL FIND ONLY A HANDFUL THAT ARE REAL...CHALK IT UP THAT'S ALL!!!!!!!! THINK OF IT AS A PYCHOLOGY LESSON.... GOD BLESS AND GOOD LUCK J
THIS IS HOW IT IS ON THE INTERNET...THE ONES THAT ARE DISFUNCTIONAL ARE THE ONES YOU BYPASS...YOU WILL FIND ONLY A HANDFUL THAT ARE REAL...CHALK IT UP THAT'S ALL!!!!!!!! THINK OF IT AS A PYCHOLOGY LESSON.... GOD BLESS AND GOOD LUCK J
samshaw, You just keep doing what you are doing babe...let those other goody two shoes girls go on about their way...you don't need it I am sure...Nothing but love babe...;)
samshaw, You just keep doing what you are doing babe...let those other goody two shoes girls go on about their way...you don't need it I am sure...Nothing but love babe...;)
Well in the first place perhaps you should avoid posting blogs that invite women to get personal. People are crazy, possesive, needy and most are not centered. Especially females, I am sure this is not news to you. So if it is so bothersome try making a better judgment. Unless you enjoy self inflicted drama.
samshaw,
Well in the first place perhaps you should avoid posting blogs that invite women to get personal. People are crazy, possesive, needy and most are not centered. Especially females, I am sure this is not news to you. So if it is so bothersome try making a better judgment. Unless you enjoy self inflicted drama.
why should you care what other people think of you. women shouldnt be like that if you like who u are then just keep doin what ur doin. if other ppl dont like it oh well its there loss. as far as the women approaching u in the wrong way as soon as they start acting like that i would just turn around and blow them off and not give it a second thought. btw that attitudinal problem with women is y i dont hang out with them. screw them and that prissy lil horse that they rode in on!!!
why should you care what other people think of you. women shouldnt be like that if you like who u are then just keep doin what ur doin. if other ppl dont like it oh well its there loss. as far as the women approaching u in the wrong way as soon as they start acting like that i would just turn around and blow them off and not give it a second thought. btw that attitudinal problem with women is y i dont hang out with them. screw them and that prissy lil horse that they rode in on!!!
Sam you look ok to me. You must be ok serving the cause and taking care of your responsibilities and all. Women and men will always get communications mixed up. Next time one of us does just draw us aside and clear it up for us tactfully but firmly. Good luck to you. Keep your head down over there. We will all hope to see your comments here when you get back.
Sam you look ok to me. You must be ok serving the cause and taking care of your responsibilities and all. Women and men will always get communications mixed up. Next time one of us does just draw us aside and clear it up for us tactfully but firmly. Good luck to you. Keep your head down over there. We will all hope to see your comments here when you get back.
Thanks for the chuckle Samshaw!..and NOOO I'm not one of those crazy chicks who like little boys. Take care. Keep writing...afterall, our forefathers thought it important enough to protect our freedom of speech.
Thanks for the chuckle Samshaw!..and NOOO I'm not one of those crazy chicks who like little boys. Take care. Keep writing...afterall, our forefathers thought it important enough to protect our freedom of speech.
Sam- there you go with that "attitude" again. You probably aren't all those things but the way you write or come across makes it appear that way and now you post again telling people to go f*ck themselves!! Why don't you just try being nice. I am not looking for a younger man but just wanted to comment on the post.
Sam- there you go with that "attitude" again. You probably aren't all those things but the way you write or come across makes it appear that way and now you post again telling people to go f*ck themselves!! Why don't you just try being nice. I am not looking for a younger man but just wanted to comment on the post.
With comments such as you've made- I am quite certain that this is a good thing. So... someone actually liked you - this IS a dating site; and is there a "right" way that you are supposed to be approached? I never read that in the rules books anywhere! LOL!
"ain't a single one of you my wife."
With comments such as you've made- I am quite certain that this is a good thing. So... someone actually liked you - this IS a dating site; and is there a "right" way that you are supposed to be approached? I never read that in the rules books anywhere! LOL!
Poor Sam must be ducking for cover right about now!!! I bet he's seriously regretting putting this blog on now. Especially since we were all so quick to judge without knowing the situation....
Poor Sam must be ducking for cover right about now!!! I bet he's seriously regretting putting this blog on now. Especially since we were all so quick to judge without knowing the situation....
You know, Sam, I hear ya! I watch these so-called reality shows and listen to my teenagers and wonder where these women come from... It seems that most are all so desperate that they are willing to do anything including making a fool out of themselves on national TV. I wouldn't want to be a man in this world today. How do you ever know the REAL person and know that it is not an act to get you to the alter.
I was married for 13 years and have been divorced for the last 10 years. I have purposely stayed out of the dating scene while I raised my kids, but I have watched and listened and most of the time I am appalled at the way women disrespect themselves and then get mad when their man (and the rest of the world) doesn't respect them or treat them right.
Well, I am sure I have made a few enemies now!!
So Sam keep your head in the game and stay safe out there!
You know, Sam, I hear ya! I watch these so-called reality shows and listen to my teenagers and wonder where these women come from... It seems that most are all so desperate that they are willing to do anything including making a fool out of themselves on national TV. I wouldn't want to be a man in this world today. How do you ever know the REAL person and know that it is not an act to get you to the alter.
I was married for 13 years and have been divorced for the last 10 years. I have purposely stayed out of the dating scene while I raised my kids, but I have watched and listened and most of the time I am appalled at the way women disrespect themselves and then get mad when their man (and the rest of the world) doesn't respect them or treat them right.
Well, I am sure I have made a few enemies now!!
So Sam keep your head in the game and stay safe out there!
