okay been a while since I've posted here and what the heck has happened? first off I can't change my profile stuff... maybe that is just me it is like 1am and I could be a little sleepy, but whatever. here is my deal. just got the ax to say the least. written off, adios, good bye, that is all she/he wrote. no hope of a tomorrow with my husband. honestly didn't really think there was, but hey you know how it goes, till you hear the words it isn't really reality no matter what I guess. so life is kind of harsh. so now here I am. 33, soon to be single. I haven't lived with my "husband" in over a year. he is seeing some one else already. I have two great kids that I've let consume my whole life and I'm freaking out. All of a sudden I'm thinking holy cow I need to meet some people. men, women, friends, whatever-- I just need a life! I haven't done anything but hang on to a pipe dream for 10 years. So ring me up. or write me up rather here on this lovely website, especially if you are a local of San Diego-- one of the biggest military bases of course, where else would I be living? UGH!
okay been a while since I've posted here and what the heck has happened? first off I can't change my profile stuff... maybe that is just me it is like 1am and I could be a little sleepy, but whatever. here is my deal. just got the ax to say the least. written off, adios, good bye, that is all she/he wrote. no hope of a tomorrow with my husband. honestly didn't really think there was, but hey you know how it goes, till you hear the words it isn't really reality no matter what I guess. so life is kind of harsh. so now here I am. 33, soon to be single. I haven't lived with my "husband" in over a year. he is seeing some one else already. I have two great kids that I've let consume my whole life and I'm freaking out. All of a sudden I'm thinking holy cow I need to meet some people. men, women, friends, whatever-- I just need a life! I haven't done anything but hang on to a pipe dream for 10 years. So ring me up. or write me up rather here on this lovely website, especially if you are a local of San Diego-- one of the biggest military bases of course, where else would I be living? UGH!
hahaha! at this point I would just like a nice "friend" I can hang out with every so often, to heck with an actual husband or real relationship--seems to be asking too much at this point. still would be nice to have some actual adult male company once in a while, is it too much to ask???
hahaha! at this point I would just like a nice "friend" I can hang out with every so often, to heck with an actual husband or real relationship--seems to be asking too much at this point. still would be nice to have some actual adult male company once in a while, is it too much to ask???
Hello ladies, I know how you all feel. I have been single since 1985 and am still looking for the right man. It's tough out there but I truly believe there is someone for everyone out there....just a matter of finding them. I'm in my 50's so to all you younger women....don't give up !!
Hello ladies, I know how you all feel. I have been single since 1985 and am still looking for the right man. It's tough out there but I truly believe there is someone for everyone out there....just a matter of finding them. I'm in my 50's so to all you younger women....don't give up !!
Thanks for the well wishes ladies! I'm hanging in there. taking it one day at a time and all that. thought about going back to church seriously Lisa to tell you the truth, have had some friends from back when I was young and an active member pushing me that way but thus far every weekend it has been one thing or another holding me back. we will see how that works out. Still the faith is there... though it isn't quite as prevalent in my life as it was when I was younger for better or worse, who knows. I do have a degree from college which allows me to have my current job as substitute teacher, but I can't really use it and work in the field I studied in easily with kids to care for on my own so I'm looking in to going back and getting my masters in something perhaps more practical for a single mom. we will see. for now i'm just getting by day by day like I said. it has been a long month for me to say the least. while I know things always have a way of working out in time, it is just all that "time" it takes that drives me crazy sometimes ya know?? and well heck, I really really was willing to do anything and everything to make a marriage work. I just managed to marry someone who didn't feel the same way. and honestly that. I kind of feel like men a little right now. and am more than slightly dismayed at the prospects of finding someone even if it is a little early to be thinking along those terms... but in a way who wouldn't? I don't know... it is crazy!!
Thanks for the well wishes ladies! I'm hanging in there. taking it one day at a time and all that. thought about going back to church seriously Lisa to tell you the truth, have had some friends from back when I was young and an active member pushing me that way but thus far every weekend it has been one thing or another holding me back. we will see how that works out. Still the faith is there... though it isn't quite as prevalent in my life as it was when I was younger for better or worse, who knows. I do have a degree from college which allows me to have my current job as substitute teacher, but I can't really use it and work in the field I studied in easily with kids to care for on my own so I'm looking in to going back and getting my masters in something perhaps more practical for a single mom. we will see. for now i'm just getting by day by day like I said. it has been a long month for me to say the least. while I know things always have a way of working out in time, it is just all that "time" it takes that drives me crazy sometimes ya know?? and well heck, I really really was willing to do anything and everything to make a marriage work. I just managed to marry someone who didn't feel the same way. and honestly that. I kind of feel like men a little right now. and am more than slightly dismayed at the prospects of finding someone even if it is a little early to be thinking along those terms... but in a way who wouldn't? I don't know... it is crazy!!
hey,hang in there...you're doing a great job as a mum. me? I'm here down under in Australia and ready to meet a real man somewhere, anywhere, so know how you're feeling.
Tina
hey,hang in there...you're doing a great job as a mum. me? I'm here down under in Australia and ready to meet a real man somewhere, anywhere, so know how you're feeling.
